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From Eliyahu

 

Life in the 21st Century is complex, and can be difficult for anyone. In this message I am specifically talking about balancing the roles of wife and mother with other life demands, starting with your personal faith, your spiritual community, secular work, and any of 101 other things that may be part of a believing women's life. Being a disciple of Yeshua gives you resources others don't have, such as the empowerment of the Holy Spirit, and the experience of His love and care for you. Even if you don't get it all perfect sometimes, He is always there to make the difference. Just knowing that builds courage to face the day and His peace in your heart.

 

Then there is His Word, filled with such amazing wisdom and food for the soul! To balance out the demands of life more easily remember these few Biblical principles that help to make for a happy and productive life. How these will apply in your life is something you will need to discern as you go, because of individual circumstances, but here are a few general principles that have been especially useful to praiseworthy women.

1. Prioritizing Your Relationship with your Father in Heaven
Your relationship with your Heavenly Father must be the foundation of your life. Spending time in prayer, reading the Bible, and seeking His guidance will help you navigate your responsibilities. The amazing thing here is, He wants to be a part of every little thing going on in your life - and the big things too! Don't hold back from telling Him everything. Of course, He already knows, but when you are in constant communication with Him you are creating the opening for Him to speak to you. Now, that's a real relationship!

"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Messiah Yeshua." (Philippians 4:6-7)

2. Nurturing Your Marriage
A strong marriage is crucial for a stable family life. It takes two for this to happen. Strive to make your husband's interests your own. Build trust by communicating openly and honestly. Remember that nobody is perfect, so instead of being a critic, be a prayer partner. You can't beat this simple advice:

"However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband." (Ephesians 5:33)

3. Raising Your Children with Love, Guidance and Discipline
We all know our children need love and guidance. Strive to be a positive role model and teach them according to biblical principles. They need discipline too, but this is harder. Society today frowns on discipline, and I grant you, it can be uncomfortable and unpleasant to be the "bad guy." Why should you do that? Here's why:

"The rod of correction gives wisdom, but a child left to himself causes shame to his mother. (Proverbs 29:15)
 

"Train up a child in the way he should go,and when he is old he will not depart from it." (Proverbs 22:6-7)

4. Balancing Secular Work and Family
Its best for a mom with young children to be in the home with her kids. However, in today's world that is not always possible. Balancing work with family responsibilities requires careful planning and flexibility. Set realistic goals and boundaries to meet the needs of your family while also meeting your work obligations. Granted, that's not easy, but who said life was going to be easy? This is true: your family will see how hard you try, and love will make the difference. Shalom.

"She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks." (Proverbs 31:17)

5. Serving Your Kingdom Community
Your Kingdom community may primarily be local, or it could be online, or it could be both. Where is the Lord calling you to be blessed and to bless? If its here at Tsiyon we want to see you grow in Him, and to be ready for the things coming upon the world here in these Last Days. That's important for you, for the ones you love and for others you come in contact with.

 

We have so much at Tsiyon to bless you! We recommend our Torah Course and other resources. Try to keep up live or via our recordings each week. We know you're busy, which is why we provide a radio station 24/7/365, so you can listen while you are busy. Just letting others know about Tsiyon is a great way to serve. Include us in your social media and tell your friends about us. Most of all, please pray for the mission. That means a lot!

"As each has received a gift, employ it in serving one another, as good managers of the grace of God in its various forms. If anyone speaks, let it be as it were the very words of God. If anyone serves, let it be as of the strength which God supplies, that in all things God may be glorified through Yeshua the Messiah, to whom belong the glory and the dominion forever and ever. Amen." (1 Peter 4:10-11)

6. Self-Care and Rest
It's great to have a self-sacrificing attitude as did our Lord. However, taking care of yourself is essential to effectively manage your responsibilities toward God and others. Surely, YHWH knows that - He gave us the Sabbath! He knows you need rest, exercise, and time for activities that rejuvenate you. Get with that Sabbath plan of His and it will do wonders for both your body and your spirit.

"He said to them, The Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath. Therefore the Son of Man is lord even of the Sabbath." (Mark 2:27-28)

7. Trusting in God's Plan
Life can be unpredictable, and it's important to trust that God has a plan for you and your family. Trust Him and don't be afraid to move with the Spirit into all of God's Will for your life. Lean on your faith during challenging times and seek His wisdom.

"YHWH is my shepherd:
I shall lack nothing.
He makes me lie down in green pastures.
He leads me beside still waters.
He restores my soul.
He guides me in the paths of righteousness for his names sake."
(Psalms 23:1-4)

Conclusion
Balancing out the responsibilities of life as a disciple of the Master isn't always easy, but it is always fruitful. Finally, I leave you with these encouraging words of the apostle Paul: "..whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things. The things which you learned, received, heard, and saw in me: do these things, and the God of peace will be with you." (Philippians 4:8-9)

 

Tonight we are streaming our lady's live special, with our panel of praiseworthy women, hosted by my daughter, Abigail. Join us and invite your friends on any video platform we broadcast on. Ask questions and comment! This live stream will begin tonight at Tsiyon.Net at 8 PM, Central. This is sure to be a thoughtful and encouraging discussion especially for the ladies!

 

Eliyahu
Tsiyon.Org